The word total acceptance has been somehow preached because we are living in toatal rejection,whatever happens we somehow find something wrong it.
Now the first question ,why do you want to change yourself,Pawan? an inner answer came you are beautiful as you are ,why can’t you accept yourself as you are. Heard miracle happens when we accept ourselves,changes take place by itself….trust me it does. These changes cannot take place by effort because who will change us ….see it is the same mind trying to change itself,this is impossible it cannot – there maybe glimpse of change but what we were inside still will remain.
Then what is the way…the way simply is accept yourself as you are and it is the magic key.When we accept ourselves intelligence arises ,intelligence arises because now we are not divided,the split between me and who I should be disappears,this is that place where the secret of schizophrenia is situated,’I am this,I want to be this’.
Just a few check in us and believe me it is just very easy to accept self as we are. How I did it…first I found out what do I really feel sad ,bad,disappointed about and then I found out answers to them by asking myself– what can I do about this,how to and is there a solution or not.
- What makes me happy ,I made a list of it and tried to do all that really made me feel happy.
- I then made a list of all my fears and I talked to myself if they are to happen they will ,all I need to do is try doing things and forget about the result….
- I started asking to myself do I believe in me and this helped to prove it to myself that my thoughts are also right and thus all I need is to grab opportunities.
- I now know that I am first and only person who is responsible for my happiness and if I am happy others around me will also be happy.
- Life is simple ,forgetting past and living in present is best way ,why complicate life with past and future.
- Why to remain stagnant ,if we are flexible as life is we can change ,convert ,accept and let go expectations.
- We need to face reality,reality is the teacher ,we need to learn accept and move taking all together.
- I needed to conserve my self power so I need to believe and know I am strong and I have strength.
- Relationships teach patience,compassion,love,honesty,respect so I needed to accept them as they are,as they come and as they go.
- I need to stop feeling guilty of what other’s think.
- Seeing the mind games and then understanding it helps to be deattach.
- Thinking less accepting is way to let go negative thoughts.
- I am for myself , I need this body to walk the journey so I need to accept it with love.
- There are many who are not happy let me make myself so strong that I can make others smile. One person every day and I will help good about myself.
- Happy is one who understands himself.,so I need to accept myself to understand myself better.