124+ Best Haruki Murakami Quotes: Exclusive Selection

Haruki Murakami is a Japanese writer. His books and stories have been bestsellers in Japan as well as internationally, with his work being translated into 50 languages and selling millions of copies outside his native country. Profoundly inspirational Haruki Murakami quotes will challenge the way you think, change the way you live and transform your whole life.

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Famous Haruki Murakami Quotes

And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about. – Haruki Murakami

A certain something, he felt, had managed to work its way in through a tiny opening and was trying to fill a blank space inside him. The void was not one that she had made. It had always been there inside him. She had merely managed to shine a special light on it. – Haruki Murakami

Some things are forgotten, some things disappear, some things die. – Haruki Murakami

Why do I act like this, agreeing when I really disagree, letting people force me to do things I don’t want to do? – Haruki Murakami

Between a high, solid wall and an egg that breaks against it, I will always stand on the side of the egg. Yes, no matter how right the wall may be and how wrong the egg, I will stand with the egg. Someone else will have to decide what is right and what is wrong; perhaps time or history will decide. If there were a novelist who, for whatever reason, wrote works standing with the wall, of what value would such works be? – Haruki Murakami

Loneliness becomes an acid that eats away at you. – Haruki Murakami

Memories warm you up from the inside. But they also tear you apart. – Haruki Murakami

But who can say what’s best? That’s why you need to grab whatever chance you have of happiness where you find it, and not worry about other people too much. My experience tells me that we get no more than two or three such chances in a lifetime, and if we let them go, we regret it for the rest of our lives. – Haruki Murakami

In a sense, I’m the one who ruined me: I did it myself. – Haruki Murakami

Most things are forgotten over time. Even the war itself, the life-and-death struggle people went through, is now like something from the distant past. We’re so caught up in our everyday lives that events of the past, like ancient stars that have burned out, are no longer in orbit around our minds. There are just too many things we have to think about every day, too many new things we have to learn. New styles, new information, new technology, new terminology … But still, no matter how much time passes, no matter what takes place in the interim, there are some things we can never assign to oblivion, memories we can never rub away. They remain with us forever, like a touchstone. And for me, what happened in the woods that day is one of these. – Haruki Murakami

A certain type of perfection can only be realized through a limitless accumulation of the imperfect. – Haruki Murakami

I’m the kind of person who likes to be by himself. To put a finer point on it, I’m the type of person who doesn’t find it painful to be alone. I find spending an hour or two every day running alone, not speaking to anyone, as well as four or five hours alone at my desk, to be neither difficult nor boring. I’ve had this tendency ever since I was young, when, given a choice, I much preferred reading books on my own or concentrating on listening to music over being with someone else. I could always think of things to do by myself. – Haruki Murakami

As long as I was alive, I was something. That was just how it was. But somewhere along the way it all changed. Living turned me into nothing. – Haruki Murakami

Lost opportunities, lost possibilities, feelings we can never get back. That’s part of what it means to be alive. But inside our heads – at least that’s where I imagine it – there’s a little room where we store those memories. A room like the stacks in this library. And to understand the workings of our own heart we have to keep on making new reference cards. We have to dust things off every once in a while, let in fresh air, change the water in the flower vases. In other words, you’ll live forever in your own private library. – Haruki Murakami

An unhealthy soul requires a healthy body. – Haruki Murakami

Say it before you run out of time. Say it before it’s too late. Say what you’re feeling. Waiting is a mistake. – Haruki Murakami

It’s all matter of attitude. You could let a lot of things bother you if you wanted to But it’s pretty much the same anywhere you go, you can manage. – Haruki Murakami

Strong and independent? I’m neither. I’m just being pushed along by reality, whether I like it or not. – Haruki Murakami

But the silence spoke volumes. – Haruki Murakami

A deserted library in the morning – there’s something about it that really gets to me. All possible words and ideas are there, resting peacefully. – Haruki Murakami

I never could stand being forced to do something I didn’t want to do at a time I didn’t want to do it. Whenever I was able to do something I liked to do, though, when I wanted to do it, and the way I wanted to do it, I’d give it everything I had. – Haruki Murakami

Exerting yourself to the fullest within your individual limits: that’s the essence of running, and a metaphor for life – Haruki Murakami

Learning another language is like becoming another person. – Haruki Murakami

Our responsibility begins with our imagination. – Haruki Murakami

Every one of us is losing something precious to us. Lost opportunities, lost possibilities, feelings we can never get back again. That’s part of what it means to be alive. – Haruki Murakami

Inside that darkness, i saw rain falling on the sea. Rain softly falling on a vast sea, with no one there to see it. The rain strikes the surface of the sea, yet even the fish don’t know it is raining. – Haruki Murakami

If you can love someone with your whole heart, even one person, then there’s salvation in life. Even if you can’t get together with that person. – Haruki Murakami

I want to write about people who dream and wait for the night to end, who long for the light so they can hold the ones they love. – Haruki Murakami

When it’s all over, it’ll seem like a dream. – Haruki Murakami

Isn’t life strange? There are people who have so many leftover clothes they can’t stuff them all in their wardrobe. And then there are people like me, whose socks never match. – Haruki Murakami

Spend your money on the things money can buy. Spend your time on the things money can’t buy. – Haruki Murakami

Spending plenty of time on something can be the most sophisticated form of revenge. – Haruki Murakami

Anyone who falls in love is searching for the missing pieces of themselves. So, anyone who’s in love gets sad when they think of their lover. It’s like stepping back inside a room you have fond memories of, one you haven’t seen in a long time. – Haruki Murakami

Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories. – Haruki Murakami

I want to believe you, but if that’s true, I just don’t get it. Why does loving somebody mean you have to hurt them just as much? I mean, if that’s the way it goes, what’s the point of loving someone? – Haruki Murakami

Life is a lot more fragile than we think. So you should treat others in a way that leaves no regrets. Fairly, and if possible, sincerely. – Haruki Murakami

If you want everything to be nice and straight all the time, then go live in a world made with a triungular ruler. – Haruki Murakami

No matter how much time passes, no matter what takes place in the interim, there are some things we can never assign to oblivion, memories we can never rub away. – Haruki Murakami

In long-distance running the only opponent you have to beat is yourself, the way you used to be. – Haruki Murakami

Please remember: things are not what they seem. – Haruki Murakami

No matter how honestly you open up to someone, there are still things you cannot reveal. – Haruki Murakami

I am here, alone, at the end of the world. I reach out and touch nothing… – Haruki Murakami

But I didn’t understand then. That I could hurt somebody so badly she would never recover. That a person can, just by living, damage another human being beyond repair. – Haruki Murakami

The thing I’m most afraid of is me. Of not knowing what I’m going to do. Of not knowing what I’m doing right now – Haruki Murakami

Everyone, deep in their hearts, is waiting for the end of the world to come. – Haruki Murakami

Don’t feel sorry for yourself. Only arseholes do that. – Haruki Murakami

The most important thing we learn at school is the fact that the most important things can’t be learned at school. – Haruki Murakami

No truth can cure the sorrow we feel from losing a loved one. No truth, no sincerity, no strength, no kindness can cure that sorrow. All we can do is see it through to the end and learn something from it, but what we learn will be no help in facing the next sorrow that comes to us without warning. – Haruki Murakami

Never let the darkness or negativity outside affect your inner self. Just wait until morning comes and the bright light will drown out the darkness. – Haruki Murakami

Although I didn’t think so at the time, things were a lot simpler in 1969. All you had to do to express yourself was throw rocks at riot police. But with today’s sophistication, who’s in a position to throw rocks? Who’s going to brave what tear gas? C’mon, that’s the way it is. Everything is rigged, tied into that massive capital web, and beyond this web there’s another web. Nobody’s going anywhere. You throw a rock and it’ll come right back at you. – Haruki Murakami

Understanding’ is merely the sum total of our misunderstandings. – Haruki Murakami

Sometimes it’s not the people who change, it’s the mask that falls off. – Haruki Murakami

We’re all kind of weird and twisted and drowning. – Haruki Murakami

As we go through life we gradually discover who we are, but the more we discover, the more we lose ourselves. – Haruki Murakami

What you see with your eyes is not necessarily real. – Haruki Murakami

Start making excuses and there’s no end to it. I can’t live that kind of life. – Haruki Murakami

But if you knew you might not be able to see it again tomorrow, everything would suddenly become special and precious, wouldn’t it? – Haruki Murakami

She was seriously in love, but she never made demands. – Haruki Murakami

What a terrible thing it is to wound someone you really care for and to do it so unconsciously. – Haruki Murakami

There are three ways you can get along with a girl: one, shut up and listen to what she has to say; two, tell her you like what she’s wearing; and three, treat her to really good food…If you do all that and still don’t get the results you want, better give up. – Haruki Murakami

I don’t know, there’s something about you. Say there’s an hourglass: the sand’s about to run out. Someone like you can always be counted on to turn the thing over. – Haruki Murakami

Will you wait for me forever? – Haruki Murakami

Silence, I discover, is something you can actually hear. – Haruki Murakami

I can bear any pain as long as it has meaning. – Haruki Murakami

I learned that realism can come in all shapes and sizes. The world is big enough for different values to coexist. – Haruki Murakami

In most cases learning something essential in life requires physical pain. – Haruki Murakami

She curled up and pressed her cheek against his chest. Her ear was right above his heart. She was listening to his thoughts. I need to know this, Aomame said. That we’re in the same world, seeing the same things. – Haruki Murakami

Everything passes. Nobody gets anything for keeps. And that’s how we’ve got to live. – Haruki Murakami

If you only read the books that everyone else is reading, you can only think what everyone else is thinking. – Haruki Murakami

Whatever it is you’re seeking won’t come in the form you’re expecting. – Haruki Murakami

When I first met you, I felt a kind of contradiction in you. You’re seeking something, but at the same time, you are running away for all you’re worth. – Haruki Murakami

I was always hungry for love. Just once, I wanted to know what it was like to get my fill of it — to be fed so much love I couldn’t take any more. Just once. – Haruki Murakami

I think of rivers, of tides. Forests and water gushing out. Rain and lightning. Rocks and shadows. All of these are in me. – Haruki Murakami

Memory is like fiction; or else it’s fiction that’s like memory. This really came home to me once I started writing fiction, that memory seemd a kind of fiction, or vice versa. Either way, no matter how hard you try to put everything neatly into shape, the context wanders this way and that, until finally the context isn’t even there anymore… Warm with life, hopeless unstable. – Haruki Murakami

The journey I’m taking is inside me. Just like blood travels down veins, what I’m seeing is my inner self and what seems threatening is just the echo of the fear in my heart. – Haruki Murakami

If you miss the bus, miss the train, you’d be left behind. So, everyone says, let’s get on the train, let’s get on the bus and go faster and get rich… I just didn’t like that kind of lifestyle. I love to read books, to listen to music. – Haruki Murakami

Nobody’s going to win all the time. On the highway of life, you can’t always be in the fast lane. – Haruki Murakami

In dreams begins responsibilities. – Haruki Murakami

As I see it, you are living with something that you keep hidden deep inside. Something heavy. I felt it from the first time I met you. You have a strong gaze, as if you have made up your mind about something. To tell you the truth, I myself carry such things around inside. Heavy things. That is how I can see it in you. – Haruki Murakami

There were plenty of women around who dressed smartly, and plenty more who dressed to impress, but this girl was different. Totally different. She wore her clothing with such utter naturalness and grace that she could have been a bird that had wrapped itself in a special wind as it made ready to fly off to another world. He had never seen a woman who wore her clothes with such apparent joy. And the clothes themselves looked as if, in being draped on her body, they had won new life for themselves. – Haruki Murakami

I’m scared, she said. These days I feel like a snail without a shell. I’m scared too, I said. I feel like a frog without any webs. She looked up and smiled. Wordlessly we walked over to a shaded part of the building and held each other and kissed, a shell-less snail and a webless frog. – Haruki Murakami

I didn’t want to be a writer, but I became one. And now I have many readers, in many countries. I think that’s a miracle. So I think I have to be humble regarding this ability. I’m proud of it and I enjoy it, and it is strange to say it this way, but I respect it. – Haruki Murakami

In this world, there are things you can only do alone, and things you can only do with somebody else. It’s important to combine the two in just the right amount. – Haruki Murakami

Find me now. Before someone else does. – Haruki Murakami

In everybody’s life there’s a point of no return. And in a very few cases, a point where you can’t go forward anymore. And when we reach that point, all we can do is quietly accept the fact. That’s how we survive. – Haruki Murakami

She waited for the train to pass. Then she said, I sometimes think that people’s hearts are like deep wells. Nobody knows what’s at the bottom. All you can do is imagine by what comes floating to the surface every once in a while. – Haruki Murakami

I have a million things to talk to you about. All I want in this world is you. I want to see you and talk. I want the two of us to begin everything from the beginning. – Haruki Murakami

Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. – Haruki Murakami

No matter how far you travel, you can never get away from yourself. – Haruki Murakami

There was just one moon. That familiar, yellow, solitary moon. The same moon that silently floated over fields of pampas grass, the moon that rose–a gleaming, round saucer–over the calm surface of lakes, that tranquilly beamed down on the rooftops of fast-asleep houses. The same moon that brought the high tide to shore, that softly shone on the fur of animals and enveloped and protected travelers at night. The moon that, as a crescent, shaved slivers from the soul–or, as a new moon, silently bathed the earth in its own loneliness. THAT moon. – Haruki Murakami

There are lots of things we never understand, no matter how many years we put on, no matter how much experience we accumulate. – Haruki Murakami

No matter what you tell me, no matter how legitimate your reasons, I can never just forget about you, I can never push the years we spent together out of my mind. I can’t do it because it really happened, they are part of my life, and there is no way I can just erase them. That would be the same as erasing my own self. – Haruki Murakami

Kumiko and I felt something for each other from the beginning. It was not one of those strong, impulsive feelings that can hit two people like an electric shock when they first meet, but something quieter and gentler, like two tiny lights traveling in tandem through a vast darkness and drawing imperceptibly closer to each other as they go. As our meetings grew more frequent, I felt not so much that I had met someone new as that I had chanced upon a dear old friend. – Haruki Murakami

Closing your eyes isn’t going to change anything. Nothing’s going to disappear just because you can’t see what’s going on. In fact, things will even be worse the next time you open your eyes. That’s the kind of world we live in. Keep your eyes wide open. Only a coward closes his eyes. Closing your eyes and plugging up your ears won’t make time stand still. – Haruki Murakami

I guess I’ve been waiting so long I’m looking for perfection. That makes it tough. Waiting for perfect love?No, even I know better than that. I’m looking for selfishness. Like, say I tell you I want to eat strawberry shortcake. And you stop everything you’re doing and run out and buy it for me. And you come back out of breath and get down on your knees and hold this strawberry shortcake out to me. And I say I don’t want it anymore and throw it out the window. That’s what I’m looking for. – Haruki Murakami

But even so, every now and then I would feel a violent stab of loneliness. The very water I drink, the very air I breathe, would feel like long, sharp needles. The pages of a book in my hands would take on the threatening metallic gleam of razor blades. I could hear the roots of loneliness creeping through me when the world was hushed at four o’clock in the morning. – Haruki Murakami

I am a flawed human being – a far more flawed human being than you realize. – Haruki Murakami

I happen to like the strange ones. People who look normal and leads normal lives – they’re the ones you have to watch out for. – Haruki Murakami

Unclose your mind. You are not a prisoner. You are a bird in flight, searching the skies for dreams. – Haruki Murakami

If you think God’s there, He is. If you don’t, He isn’t. And if that’s what God’s like, I wouldn’t worry about it. – Haruki Murakami

He does not exist here, with me, but flesh that does not exist will never die, and promises unmade are never broken. – Haruki Murakami

If I have left a wound inside you, it is not just your wound but mine as well. – Haruki Murakami

You can keep as quiet as you like, but one of these days somebody is going to find you. – Haruki Murakami

All over the world people have developed their own ideas about what’s right and wrong in life, but so long as you aren’t harming others or the Earth, it’s your choice when you decide how you want to live your life – Yours and yours alone. Life’s no piece of cake, mind you, but the recipe’s my own to fool with. – Haruki Murakami

As time goes on, you’ll understand. What lasts, lasts; what doesn’t, doesn’t. Time solves most things. And what time can’t solve, you have to solve yourself. – Haruki Murakami

Despite your best efforts, people are going to be hurt when it’s time for them to be hurt. – Haruki Murakami

That’s what the world is, after all: an endless battle of contrasting memories. – Haruki Murakami

We were, the two of us, still fragmentary beings, just beginning to sense the presence of an unexpected, to be-acquired reality that would fill us and make us whole. – Haruki Murakami

People fall in love without reason, without even wanting to. You can’t predict it. That’s love. – Haruki Murakami

Time flows in a strange way on Sundays. – Haruki Murakami

We’re both looking at the same moon, in the same world. We’re connected to reality by the same line. All I have to do is quietly draw it towards me. – Haruki Murakami

Your work should be an act of love, not a marriage of convenience. – Haruki Murakami

Sometimes you’re just the sweetest thing. Like Christmas, summer vacation, and a brand-new puppy rolled into one. – Haruki Murakami

Maybe working on the little things as dutifully and honestly as we can is how we stay sane when the world is falling apart. – Haruki Murakami

If you really want to know something, you have to be willing to pay the price. – Haruki Murakami

What happens when people open their hearts? … They get better. – Haruki Murakami

Reading was like an addiction; I read while I ate, on the train, in bed until late at night, in school, where I’d keep the book hidden so I could read during class. Before long I bought a small stereo and spent all my time in my room, listening to jazz records. But I had almost no desire to talk to anyone about the experience I gained through books and music. I felt happy just being me and no one else. In that sense I could be called a stack-up loner. – Haruki Murakami

There are ways of dying that don’t end in funerals. Types of death you can’t smell. – Haruki Murakami

Sometimes when I look at you, I feel I’m gazing at a distant star. It’s dazzling, but the light is from tens of thousands of years ago. Maybe the star doesn’t even exist anymore. Yet sometimes that light seems more real to me than anything. – Haruki Murakami

You can hide memories, but you can’t erase the history that produced them. – Haruki Murakami

I have this strange feeling that I’m not myself anymore. It’s hard to put into words, but I guess it’s like I was fast asleep, and someone came, disassembled me, and hurriedly put me back together again. That sort of feeling. – Haruki Murakami

You got to know your limits. Once is enough, but you got to learn. A little caution never hurt anyone. A good woodsman has only one scar on him. No more, no less. – Haruki Murakami

This is one more piece of advice I have for you: don’t get impatient. Even if things are so tangled up you can’t do anything, don’t get desperate or blow a fuse and start yanking on one particular thread before it’s ready to come undone. You have to realize it’s going to be a long process and that you’ll work on things slowly, one at a time. – Haruki Murakami

One heart is not connected to another through harmony alone. They are, instead, linked deeply through their wounds. Pain linked to pain, fragility to fragility. There is no silence without a cry of grief, no forgiveness without bloodshed, no acceptance without a passage through acute loss. That is what lies at the root of true harmony. – Haruki Murakami

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