Human beings are social animals who love talking. A right conversation at a right time sparks interest in communication. If you are curious to know how to initiate a conversation with a guy of your choice then stick to the screens of your gadgets because I am going to share the real conversation hacks to ignite interest. Sometimes, girls don’t realize that by polishing their social skills they can get the guys of their desires.
The Internet has been inundated with tips and tricks that have little practical value. After reading this article, you will realize how my techniques are novel and authentic as compared to those clichéd techniques that are repeating in every article.
You may also wonder “should I text him” which is a fair question. And there are qualities in a man you should look before settling in a relationship.
Here I will share fifteen experienced techniques to kick start a conversation. Ladies! Be ready.
Ways to Start a Conversation With a Guy
Be a straight-forward girl and introduce yourself
Confidence should emanate from your personality. It’s not only the beauty that attracts a guy but also the carrying posture of a beautiful creature.
If a beautiful product is placed in a showcase elegantly, it will attract people’s attention. When you introduce yourself to a guy with originality, it sparks his interest in yourself.
You can start with small talks, but it is important to share your hobbies, your interests and what matters to you. In this way, you can understand whether you will have a meaningful connection or not.
Let him realize that his next five to ten minutes are going to be the best moments of his life.
The fear of missing out on funny and engaging conversation sparks genuine interest. If you are successful in taking off the plane in your direction, you will blow his mind with your beauty combined with authenticity.
To present oneself confidently has its appeal. The more you will polish your social skills, the more confidence you will get to approach a guy.
There might be certain girls who want such an audacity but are a little bit shy. Don’t worry, for you, I have such a remarkable technique to show your appearance in front of guys.
Ask for a small favor
Asking for the time or the direction of the nearby restaurant are the best techniques for initiating a conversation for shy girls.
After asking, you can mold conversation in a way that how you are confused in a certain situation or how do you need a certain help. To evoke the sympathetic side of a guy is a real conversation hack.
Guys love to help girls. Guys are hard-wired to help girls. But be aware; don’t project yourself in a needy way.
Sometimes too much focus on your needy nature turns the guy off. The real purpose of a conversation should be giving importance to a guy.
Get yourself dress brilliantly
When you wear a dress that you like, it exudes confidence in yourself.
Try to put your first impression positively. Wear bright and attractive colors.
Present yourself in the best way automatically sends good vibes.
This will help you to talk with a guy confidently.
Try to be conscious about your accessories like shoes, pendants, and anklets. These small things matter a lot to attract a guy.
Talk about your surroundings
The environment has a direct impact on one’s mood and feelings.
After a little bit of introduction, you can ask him about the environment. If there is a sunny day outside, you can ask him to have a cold drink under a nice shade.
From there you can just ask about his preference regarding clothes in a different environment.
Ask about his interests
After talking a bit about the environment, you can steer the direction of conversation towards fashion choices in different environmental conditions.
Ask him whether he likes shorts or jeans.
What is his favorite weather? If he likes the rainy season, you can show your interest in rainy weather as well.
Try to find a common ground to have an engaging conversation.
Ask about his hobbies, favorite seasons and music choices, etc. When someone talks about himself, he feels good. Try to listen to what a guy is saying.
You can also use flirty questions to ask a boy and you will add spice and fun to your next chat.
Feel him comfortable during a conversation
Don’t try to interfere much when he is talking. Control your excitement level. Don’t feel him as if you are faking a conversation.
If you like a guy, you should be patient enough to listen to those aspects of conversation that you don’t like much just for the sake of creating a good bond.
If you will listen to him carefully, you will learn many new things in life. Capitalize from your experience.
Understand what he wants
It’s very important to locate the surroundings of the guy. If you are observing him for the last couple of days, try to guess what he usually does in his free time.
When does he remain alone? Figure out the best time to kick start a conversation. Ask questions in a way that reveals his needs.
Look everyone is a puzzle of needs, be the missing part and get what you want.
If he is craving for love, show your motherly side.
If he likes fun, talk about the best comedy shows in the town.
If he looks like an expert in some tech field, try to run a conversation in a way as if you are interested in his ambitions.
When you facilitate a guy during the conversation, he automatically feels good.
Feel him important
Look, self-esteem is the basic ingredient of one’s personality. It’s a common human psyche that a man responds to those who give him importance.
Try your best not to dominate a conversation. Give him a proper time to talk comfortably.
The more he will feel important, the more he will talk to you. And that’s how to get a guy to like you.
Hit his friends’ circle
If that guy is always surrounded by friends and you don’t find any suitable time to talk to him, don’t worry. Try to talk to any of his friends and show your willingness that how you like their group.
This technique is most suitable if a guy belongs to your school or university. Try to understand the group synergy. I am familiar with many girls who get the boys of their interest by hitting their friends’ circle.
Appreciation is the fuel of the soul. Who doesn’t want a compliment?
If he is wearing a nice shirt, you can compliment him. Realize to him that you like his dress choice.
It can be a compliment of any type, like, to appreciate his hairstyle or how cute he looks while smiling.
If he has a tattoo, ask about that tattoo. Show your interest to have a similar one. Always try to play on common grounds.
Pass a nice comment on his pet
If you encounter a guy in the park, you can give a compliment to his dog. You can ask about the breed of a dog.
This is the best way to start a conversation. Guys love to talk about their puppies.
You can take advantage of this situation. This is a good way to talk about his personal choices.
Ask open-ended questions
It’s not much difficult to start a conversation with a guy.
The trouble is how to continue it without interruption. Don’t ask such questions which end with yes or no answers.
Make your questions in a way that demands elaborative answers, that force a guy to think before answering.
Ask about his social media presence
We all know that it is an age of technology. Technology has made it easy to interact with the opposite gender.
During the conversation, it is much important to ask about the social media presence of a guy. If he is present on Instagram, ask for his id and send him a request to follow.
Your social media profile should be enticing. After following you, that guy should feel interested in your daily life activities.
Social media is the best way to present you nicely. This might be the first step to get close to that guy for the rest of your life.
Fall something while passing
You can drop your pen or book while passing across him. He may take that thing from the floor and give it to you. Then, you can start a conversation by saying thanks and asking something else.
Be good at social skills
Most girls feel social anxiety while talking to strange guys. It’s normal. By practice, you can easily enhance your social skills.
Your personality must be open to getting started with an interesting conversation. Prominent social skills are; look happy, warm, and kind, always open to talk and listen well.
After all, it’s the game to be good at social skills. After working actively on it, you can easily start a conversation with any guy.
Remember, you must end a conversation on happier terms. While leaving, you can say that it’s a pleasurable experience to have a conversation with you.
By focusing on these techniques mentioned above, you can easily kick start a conversation with a guy of your choice. After that, you can also learn how to get him to commit.
These techniques will come later; firstly, there is a will to experience something new. Be courageous and stay happy.