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let's talk about seven signs of fake
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nice people so you can protect your
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energy and Trust only those who truly
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deserve it one overly polite but only in
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public fake nice people love putting on
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a show in public they'll go out of their
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way to seem Charming polite and
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supportive but behind closed doors that
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kindness disappears real kindness
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doesn't need an audience two their
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compliments feel backhanded they might
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say something like wow you look great
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today for a change it's the kind of
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compliment that makes you second guess
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yourself genuine people lift you up not
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bring you down in subtle ways three
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they're always keeping score they'll
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remind you of every nice thing they've
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done for you like it's a debt you owe
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kindness isn't a transaction real
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friends don't keep a scoreboard they
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give without expecting anything in
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return four they gossip about others to
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you if they're quick to trash someone
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else when they're not around chances are
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are they're doing the same thing to you
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here's the rule if someone talks behind
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others backs they'll talk behind yours
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too five they disappear when you need
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them most fake nice people are only
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there when it's convenient for them when
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life gets tough they're suddenly too
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busy or have excuses for why they can't
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help true friends stick around in your
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worst moments not just your best ones
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six they're jealous but hide it you can
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tell they're not happy for you when
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something good happens their smile feels
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forced and their congratulations sound
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hollow real friends celebrate your wins
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like they're their own seven their
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actions don't match their words fake
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nice people are great at making promises
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but terrible at keeping them they'll say
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things like let's hang out soon but
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you'll never hear from them again real
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kindness is consistent not just words to
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fill the silence final thought here is
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the thing about fake nice people they're
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good at hiding their true selves but
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their actions always reveal the truth
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pay attention to how people treat you
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when no one else is watching that's when
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their real character shines through
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surround yourself with people who
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genuinely care about you those who don't
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need to fake their kindness because it's
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who they truly are if you've ever dealt
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with fake nice people share your
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experience in the comments below let's
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talk about how to spot and handle them
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