How you feel is all that matters. It doesn’t matter what is happening in life, or what undesirable circumstance or situation may be at risk of occurring. If you decide to feel good no matter what, your experience of life will be vastly different from someone in your same shoes who is focusing on outcomes they do not want. Be relentless in refocusing your energy towards positive feelings, even if that requires ignoring anyone who speaks in a way that brings you down. They may simply be trying to help, but get in your zone, make daily decisions and embrace the certainty of those decisions. Seek no advice other than the advice you are inspired to absorb. YOU got this.