So, I am not sure if you guys are familiar with the show : Iyanla : House of Healing …
Basically it’s a life coach show and this one in particular is working on the stereotype of the, ” Mad Black women “…. I actually have been following this show because I love her and she understands the tools that we all need to heal and just like us as women as men she too has had her fair share of living in this world having the experience of dealing with the misfortunes of heartaches and traumatic events.
I binged watch til 2am this morning to catch up and all I could do is cry …. I think pain is pain and hurt is hurt no matter , what your background is , no matter how you were raised and no matter what your skin color is . We all bleed the same and cry the same tears. As I watched the women on this show tell their story of why they were sad and why they were hurt and why they were angry. I realized that we all suffer from the same thing .
I always say ,” You will never know who suffers from the same traumatic events without speaking your story “…. and , when I say that , I am basically saying we as people do not share hurt and pain because for some reason we have figured that I have to be the only one going through this ! I have to be the only one stupid enough to allow this to happen too me ! or I am plain old to embarrass to share my story because no one will understand… all of those are lies !!!
We have no idea who has gone through what and how they sympathize with us as human beings. I speak my truth now to help the next not make the same mistake ! If we took the time to share and speak up about OUR TRUTH ! We could You could help the next younger version of you to either not make the same mistake or help them figure out how to turn wrong into right !!
I am not my sisters keeper I am my sister ! I am not my brothers keeper I am my brother !
I just talked about healing the inner child because it is very vital for who you are and how you act out towards certain things …Traumatic events can be kept housed in your inner child …Yes, you are now grown but the little you is still in you and is still hurt by whatever may have happened too you !
At what point do you let out the emotions towards what has made you become bitter or may have contributed to the reasoning why you are angry . Until you release and began to heal .Anything that happens will began to trigger that little YOU !
WE HAVE TO FIGHT FOR US ! WE HAVE TO FIGHT TO FREE THE INNER CHILD the MINI YOU !!!
We deserve happiness and positive vibes to be exuded throughout our lives but you have to make the first step .. My heart goes out to that inner girl or boy that parents did not choose you or show you how much you were valued because that was me .. I was also the girl that father did not choose to be a present figure in my life but I choose to no longer allow that to define who I am … I have taken my power back …I now decide who and what remains dormant in my life ..I have given myself back the power to CHOOSE and so should YOU !
We need to figure out the way to BE LOVE and BE UNITED and help lift each other up ..what I have learned is that FAMILY is a word and family could be a friend that is apart of your soul tribe or a friend who has helped you when you were in the darkness….
Lets SPREAD LOVE !!!! HAPPY HEALING ! I LOVE YOU GUYS UNCONDITIONALLY!!
HAPPY fRIDAY ….